{"id":1943,"date":"2007-05-01T08:55:29","date_gmt":"2007-05-01T06:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/2007\/05\/dieses-heiratsding.htm"},"modified":"2007-05-01T08:55:29","modified_gmt":"2007-05-01T06:55:29","slug":"dieses-heiratsding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/2007\/05\/dieses-heiratsding.htm","title":{"rendered":"Dieses Heirats&#8230;.ding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Es gibt dann doch Geschichten \u00fcber sowas wie Hochzeiten, die selbst mir die Tr\u00e4nen der R\u00fchrung in die Augen treiben: <a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/news\/features\/2007\/sexandlove\/30920\/\" target=_new>&#8220;The Lesbian Bride&#8217;s Handbook&#8221;<\/a> in der <i>New York Times<\/i>.<br \/>\n(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.feministing.com\/\" target=_new>via<\/a>)<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cLook!\u201d we wanted to say to everyone. \u201cLook how fun! Look what\u2019s possible! Let\u2019s have a cocktail!\u201d We would celebrate with our friends\u2014our families, even. There should be music and dancing. We\u2019d need hyacinths and shrimps! Let the wild rumpus begin.<br \/>\n(&#8230;)<br \/>\nWe just wanted a big, awesome party where everyone could meet and go bananas. It\u2019s a special opportunity, you know: The only other time everyone you love will assemble in one place is at your funeral. (At most weddings, some people you don\u2019t actually love will also be in attendance. But the silver lining of my parents\u2019 being irreverent and Amy\u2019s parents\u2019 being in denial is that we didn\u2019t have to invite anyone we didn\u2019t want to.)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Damit kann selbst ich etwas anfangen. (Und mit der Aussicht, mir einmal im Leben ein Kleid von Carolina Herrera zu leisten, nat\u00fcrlich.)<\/p>\n<p>Mag auch damit zu tun haben, dass ich viel mehr wirklich r\u00fchrende Liebesgeschichten unter schwulen und lesbischen Paaren kenne als unter Heteros \/ -ras. Vermutlich deshalb r\u00fchrend, weil so viele dieser Paare auf dem Weg zu einer Lebenspartnerschaft v\u00f6llig bescheuerte Hindernisse \u00fcberwinden mussten, die es in einer fortschrittlicheren Gesellschaft erst gar nicht g\u00e4be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Es gibt dann doch Geschichten \u00fcber sowas wie Hochzeiten, die selbst mir die Tr\u00e4nen der R\u00fchrung in die Augen treiben: &#8220;The Lesbian Bride&#8217;s Handbook&#8221; in der New York Times. (via) \u201cLook!\u201d we wanted to say to everyone. \u201cLook how fun! Look what\u2019s possible! Let\u2019s have a cocktail!\u201d We would celebrate with our friends\u2014our families, even. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1943","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1943","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1943"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1943\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}