1. None of these people considered themselves misogynists. I asked them directly, and the responses to this (and to whether or not they considered themselves to be abusers) was a resounding \u201cno.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
2. They later doubled-down on the sexist insults. When I asked them about their behavior, almost all of these individuals immediately got defensive, tried to obfuscate the issue, and when none of that worked, they doubled down on their attacks.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
(Double-down on<\/i> musste ich nachschlagen, um sicher zu gehen: Hei\u00dft verdoppeln – kann mir jemand den Unterschied zum Verb double<\/i> erkl\u00e4ren?)
\n(…)<\/p>\n3. According to them, all of this was my fault. I was told repeatedly that my choice to be vocal on issues of politics and feminism opened me up to the bevy of insults that I\u2019d received, and if I hadn\u2019t chosen to talk about those issues, then this wouldn\u2019t have happened.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
(…)<\/p>\n
4. This wasn\u2019t harassment; I\u2019m just too sensitive. As I noted above, women who call out harassment are often told that their situation isn\u2019t abusive or problematic \u2013 they\u2019re just perceiving it the wrong way.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
(…)<\/p>\n
5. They accused me of harassing them<\/i>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
(…)<\/p>\n
6. This was about power. I suppose I should have realized from the start that anyone who appears in your Twitter mentions to tell you that you\u2019re fat, ugly, old and barren (\u201cWho among us is NOT?\u201d is my unanswerable reply) isn\u2019t trying to have a conversation. They are simply trying to chase you off the platform, so your voice won\u2019t be heard anymore. This dynamic became so apparent that I was actually able to predict when they would double-down on their insults, based on when I felt the power dynamic shift.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Einen Tag gar nichts m\u00fcssen. Das schafft bei mir kein Wochenende, das schafft kein Urlaub. Das schafft nur Migr\u00e4ne. Kurz nach dem n\u00e4chtlichen Moment der Erkenntnis, dass ich mich krank melden musste, weil selbst nach Wirkung des Triptans gar nichts ging, b\u00e4umte sich mein Planungszentrum ein letztes Mal auf: Hey, nach Abklingen der schlimmsten Nachwirkungen […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,2,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-essen","category-fotos","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45953"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45995,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45953\/revisions\/45995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vorspeisenplatte.de\/speisen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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